Below are some of the messages and memories sent to Richard and his family, from Legacy.com:
Richard you are missed ... To a wonderful friend,
father and model .
Mark Frey, Los Angeles, California
To Abigail, Alison, Franklin and Judy, it has been
10 years and in some ways it seems like yesterday, while in others a lifetime
ago. I have kept Richard's obituary and picture in my desk for 10 years and on
occasion take it out to see. I loved your father for how he lived his life and
for what he shared with the rest of us who he touched during that time. I have
now been a father three times in the last 5 years, and we have two lovely girls
and one other who is not with us. But what I learned from Richard has guided me
to be the best father I can be and I think he would be pleased by that more than
anything else. He was a man of many talents but what survives his shortened
life is that love and devotion, sincerity and selflessness that guided his
principles and family values. I think of him and all of you very often. I
believe he is watching over you and is smiling at who you are and what you have
become. You are all in my prayers always.
Brian Bogosian, San Francisco, California
I think of Richard Ross often, especially around
this time of year. I worked as his Executive Assistant at The Ross Group. He
had such a contagious smile and was always so upbeat and positive. He was very
loyal and he cherished his family more than anything. I also think of them and
wonder how they are doing. They equally adored him. Peace and love to all on
this 10th Anniversary. I know Richard is missed by so many.
Janine Dolan, Massachusetts
My belated condolences to the Ross Family. I have
not seen Dickey in almost 40 years when I shared an apartment in Brighton, Mass
with my roommates. He was our friend and came to some of our parties. I came
from Hull and also remember seeing him at the Beach when we were teenagers. He
was such a wonderful fun loving young man and so handsome. We all drifted apart
and then sometime later we heard that he married. I think of the wonderful young
man quite often since that tragic day this year. I never did see him in all
those years. The thing that makes his passing even more strange for me is that
my husband's X-wife lived in the same apartment building with Atta. When I read
about the wonderful man he became and his accomplishments and you, his loving
family I was very proud to think that I once touched the life of this wonderful
human being that was taken much too soon. I will always remember Dickey.
With deepest sympathy,
Sheila Stillman-DeRuzza Margate, Florida
With deepest sympathy,
Sheila Stillman-DeRuzza Margate, Florida
To the family of Richard Ross,
The first big shock came when I heard an explosion after a low flying airplane went over my building. The second big shock came three months later when I found out my old pal Dickie, was on that aircraft.
We hung out together, back in the late fifties. We double dated often. He was a handsome, charming young man who possessed social graces beyond his years. I am sorry I lost contact with him, but am very pleased to read how he shared his life with you. I hope the warmth of his personality will live forever through you.
The first big shock came when I heard an explosion after a low flying airplane went over my building. The second big shock came three months later when I found out my old pal Dickie, was on that aircraft.
We hung out together, back in the late fifties. We double dated often. He was a handsome, charming young man who possessed social graces beyond his years. I am sorry I lost contact with him, but am very pleased to read how he shared his life with you. I hope the warmth of his personality will live forever through you.
Stanley (Simmy) Patz, New York , New York