Daniel Brandhorst 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Daniel Brandhorst.  Daniel was 41 years old on 9/11/01.  He was a passenger on United Airlines Flight 175.  On board with Daniel was his partner, Ron Gamboa and their son, 3 year old David.  A family wiped out.  The only silver lining is that the three of them were together.  Still horrible.  Daniel worked for Price Waterhouse in California. Here is the tribute that was written for Daniel's son David: http://hammeringsparksfromtheanvil.blogspot.com/2006/09/in-honor-of-david-reed-gamboa.htmlHere are some messages that I have read on legacy.com..... Daniel was loved and is missed.... 10 years now and it still is raw for his loved ones.......

I Miss You!! Justice has been served but it doesn't make it any easier. Denise Kelly, Kirkville, New York

Miss you little brother! Dawn

David and Family,
Have thought of all of you so many times since last June. Just wanted you to know that we are taking good care of the house you all grew up in. Kristin Hall, liverpool, New York

Late again ... I'm sure you guys are looking down on me now saying "Typical John, he'll probably be late to his own funeral" ... but you were on my mind all day yesterday ... we went to the Bowl last night ... it was Mahler's 7th ... I'm such a sap ... during the National Anthem I thought of you guys and started crying ... we had a Mass said for you at St Victor's ... I never met the guy you wanted to introduce me to at that Pop's group, but I did meet a wonderful man ... Bryan ... and we are getting married on the 29th ... I will be thinking of you guys that day, and the inspiration you were and still are to me today ... God Bless you all, grant you eternal rest and may perpetual light shine upon you ...

John Aiello, Los Angeles, California

Another Christmas without you, salty tears sting my heart that just can't seem to heal. My sister doesn't laugh anymore.

I miss you all so much. I am so sad that you are gone. We never got to see each other again since that summer in LA when I ran into you and Ron in WH and you talked me into staying the whole summer to hangout with you and help you find a new car- a cranberry BMW and that was just after you moved in to the house in Century City, and to think I moved to LA in 2 weeks after this horrible thing happened to the 3 of you. I MISS YOU GUYS SO MUCH!!! I NEED YOU GUYS HERE WITH ME. I will continue celebrate your lives and remember how great you guys were to me and all your family and friends every day.
All my Love Michael Saccone,Los Angeles, California

We think of you often. This anniversary is bringing back a flood of memories. John and Joe are 8 now and their only memory of David, you and Ron, are the stories we tell them and the few pictures we have. We talk about Disneyland, Mammoth, St Victor's, eating out and the numerous afternoons or evenings at your home or ours. We talk about Jeff crying all the way home from your New Year's Eve gathering. We talk about last seeing you at John and Joe's Birthday party in late August 2001. We remember you holding Julia, who was less than a month old, and how you were hoping your next child would be a girl. We thought there were going to be so, so many more fun times as our children grew up together. We miss you and all pray for you and your family every night. Thank you for being our friend and for sharing your life with us. Mike, Ron, Joey, John, Jeff & Julia, Costa Mesa, California

Michael Tarrou 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Michael Tarrou.  Michael was 38 years old on 9/11/01.  He was a Flight Attendant on United Airlines Flight 175.  Michael's girlfriend, Amy King was also working on Flight 175, Amy's tributes can be found here: http://vitaminsea.typepad.com/vitaminsea/2006/09/remembering_amy.html

http://www.libertariangirl.com/2009/09/12/amy-r-king-911-victim-remembered/

Michael loved to fly but his first love was making music.  He had a daughter, parents, a brother, sisters and many friends.  From his brother in law:  "There is no doubt that both Mac and Amy would have done absolutely everything in their power to calm and protect the passengers and crew, and would have given their lives to prevent such a disaster," Tom Lumia, Tarrou's brother-in-law, said. "They both were two of the most compassionate, peaceful, giving and understanding people on the earth, and they will be greatly missed. We will love them forever."

Here are some of the many messages to Michael left by people that love and miss him.  As I have said many times in these tributes, the messages left to the people - I miss you, happy birthday, remember this..... painful and touching.  These people are MISSED.  Fro Legacy.com:
I miss flying with you, Mac, and how you always made me laugh...and you made me think about what's important in life -- family and love. You were oozing with pride whenever you talked about your family!! I remember looking back into the 757 galley and seeing you practice your golf swing...my trips with you were the highlight of my career!! Your flying partner, Val
They got him Michael.....finally. Here's hoping that you and your family get some peace, some sort of relief from this knowledge. Helene Dean, Pennsylvania
Hey Mac.. darn I miss you... still carry around this picture of us every time I take off..my good luck charm, because I know you are always with me. I hope you are taking care up there, heaven sure gained and angel when you arrived. My heart will be forever broken.You are the greatest.....xoxo  Gretchen Schaede, Petaluma, California
Hi Michael. Just wanted to say hello. Was thinking about you today. Guess what? I'm married now ... For the 2nd time.... To the most wonderful man. He reminds me of you a little bit. He is kind and patient and living but he doesn't have any of your other numerous other talents!! LoL. But he has the important ones. Anyway I'm happy and living in PA and I own my own business. So I guess life is good. I still think of you often. You were an important person to my heart. You still are. Take care Michael. XOXO Helene (Anthony) Dean-Kawtoski, Pennsylvania
Thinking of you today Michael. Happy Birthday!! Please continue to take care of Amy for me! Kellie King

It took me almost 9 years to see this guest book. I still can't believe its been almost 9 years since you were taken from my mom and I. I think about you every day of my life and I only wish I got to experience it with you by my side. The memories I have of you are few and fantastic. Well, I wouldn't say few but it gets hard to remember sometimes.. I read every single entry in this guest book. Every single one. I love that people are still signing to this day.. and I hope they never stop. You are in all of my thoughts, my jokes, my poems (haha they always suck lol). Mom tells me everyday how much I am like you lol. I'm a slob, I can sing like you, I laugh like you, I joke around like you, and I even piss her off like you! :) Sometimes I think you're telling me exactly which buttons to push lol. She's the best. I know you loved her so much. She tells me all of the time.
I'm so glad I got to talk to you on sept. 10th. Seems like you called everybody in the fam that night. Interesting, huh? Intuition much? I remember our conversation well, and I'll never forget it.  I love you so much. I hope I see you soon enough.. come visit any time. :)  You're in my heart always and I hope I am remembered one day as you are. With such empowering love and rejoice. You were obviously fantastic and I remember you the same. I love you,forever and always, your daughter,Gina. Tarpon Springs, Florida

Capt. Victor Saracini 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Capt. Victor Saracini,  Captain Saracini was 51 years old on 9/11/01.  Capt Saracini was flying United Airlines Flight 175.  Capt Saracini was a former Navy pilot, had been flying commercial jets since 1985.  He worked for United for about 16 years. 

Victor Saracini possessed a life-long love of learning, his wife Ellen said. He served in the Navy, where he trained as a pilot; he earned a bachelor's degree in general studies from New Mexico Tech in 1976; and he took engineering, science and music classes while at Louisiana Tech. 

Victor left behind two daughters and his wife Ellen.  Ellen has become an advocate of airline safety and spoke to the Subcommittee on Aviation regarding the safety of the flight crew and passengers: http://www.secure-skies.org/Saracini.php

The following messages have been left on legacy.com to Victor and his family..... people sharing their memories of him.  He is missed and loved and I am so sorry you lost him.  We lost the best of the best that terrible day. 

August 17, 2011

To Ellen and the girls I know in a couple of days it will be Victors birthday. I have fond memories how we spent it and I remember Victor bringing you to visit at Argentine Airlines about the time of his birthday. I certainly will never forget his laughter. Fred Catchpole, Middleburg, Florida
Always remembering you my friend. Julio Oliva, Atlanta, Georgia
Ellen, just heard you and Mr Mellon, on radio...YOU GO GIRL ..the rest of us are behind you! Can't believe it hasn't been done before!!!
It's taken me a while...I miss you my friend. tony afflitto, westfield, Massachusetts
Thinking of you and your girls often. Ellen you've done a phenomenal job on the Garden of Reflection. Thank-you! Your commitment, dedication, love, and endless energy surpasses all that one can imagine! God Bless You and the Girls as you approach the anniversary date and may you receive lots of love and comfort.
Angela Cox, Lake Wylie, South Carolina
Ellen, Kirsten, Brielle,

On this 7th anniversary, people still remember Vic, and continue to wish you the best...and always will.
Tim Snider, AOCS 21-75 Lawton, Oklahoma
Your airline pilot brothers and sisters will not forget you Victor!  Captain Andrew McKinley, Whitefish Bay, Wisconsin
Ellen and the girls, I remember how proud Victor was when he brought you to my office in New York, I remember how proud he was of the first born and then the second. It is appropriate that I write this to let you know he is on my mind daily and especially today. As you know I taught Victor how to fly in the early part of his quest for his commercial, instrument, and multi engine ratings. I will always remember the good times he and I had. I hope that your grief is more tolerable and that life gives you and the girls everything Victor wanted to give you. He truly was crazy about you. Fred Catchpole

Alfred G. Marchand 9/11/01

I have the honor or paying tribute to Alfred Marchand.  He was 44 years old on 9/11.  Alfred was a flight attendant with United Airlines. He became a police officer in New Mexico. He spent 21 years in law enforcement.  After retiring he became a flight attendant with United.  Left behind were his mother, his wife, Rebecca, his son Josh, 20, and two stepsons, Dakota Hale, 16, and Tray Hale, 12.
Alfred was a Marchand was a highly decorated officer. Among his commendations were:
* Officer of the Year, 1982
* Combat Cross
* Three Exceptional Duty Awards
* Five Honorable Service Awards
* Five Grand Cordon Citations
* Director's Commendation
On July 1, 1990, Marchand became the first agent assigned to the newly formed Otero County Narcotics Enforcement Unit (NEU).
Staff Writer Michael Shinabery's reporting beats crossed paths numerous times with Marchand. In 1996, he covered Marchand's bid for an Otero County Commission seat. Shinabery said at one candidate forum, while several candidates were virulently arguing over issues of self-proclaimed importance, Marchand's sense of humor poked through the political stuffiness.
He last talked to Marchand shortly before Marchand's retirement.
"Al had a dream," Shinabery said. "He told me when he took off his badge for the last time he was going to follow his dream and become a flight attendant. He also told me he had found spiritual peace and contentment in his life."
On a whim, he signed up, said friend Connie Lane. "He just decided to do something really different. It really surprised us."As it turned out, he loved it.
He and his wife of four years, Rebecca, had met for the weekend in Boston. She was scheduled to fly back to New Mexico when her husband flew off to work, but the pair almost changed plans to spend a few more hours together in the air. She considered switching to fly on his plane.
In the end, she worried that she might not be able to rearrange her flights to get home and kept her original plan.
Here are some messages on legacy.com that have been left for Alfred and his family.....

Al hard to believe its been 8 years! You are missed everyday and not a day goes by that we dont remember you. You were such a great man who seemed to always know the right thing to say and do. I wish you were with us now but I know that you live on in our hearts forever. We miss you!

Erica, New Mexico
Well Al.. its comin around again. We will get thru it like we have the past 7 yrs. but just know each year that it goes by, it NEVER gets easier! You would think i would miss u less and less as time goes by, but it is exactly the opposite. I miss you more and more! I still cant believe you're gone... U have been such a HUGE influince in my life. I remember when we went to Canada and u were driving me to the mall. I wanted to take a picture and accidentally opened the back of the camera. All the pictures that you took of family and friends in North Dakota were gone!! but u didnt get mad, u just looked at me and even tho i know u wanted to yell, u jus shrugged it off n said u would go get some new film. U always had that comfort feeling about u that always made me feel safe! i know u are still with me now and i hope i make u proud. Although i wish i could see u as i walk down the isle, or have you hold my children when they are born, i know u will be rite there with me thru it all. I honestly believe you are my guardian angel, and will get me thru life, as you would if u were still here with us. I love you so much and miss u incredibly!!!! See u soon! Love ur tunia.. <3 Melinda Casares, Alamogordo, New Mexico

Boy, yesterday (9/11/07) was so hard. I don't think there is a day that goes by that I don't think of Al. I will never forget Sep. 11, 2001. I am scarred by it's affects....even now, six years later.
I worked closely with Al several years ago, while I was Sales Mgr. at the Cellular One office in Alamogordo. Although I only knew him in a professional capacity, I thought a lot of him. Al was always professional, gracious and kind.
I remember hearing his name on the television news, on that day and my heart literally broke into a million pieces. All I could think about was his family. I still hurt for you all.
I wear a silver bracelet with Al's name and flight number engraved on it, in his memory. It serves as a reminder of just how precious life really is. I will never, ever forget. My life was changed forever on that day. I owe a huge debt of gratitude that can't ever be repaid.
Be Blessed....You are truly loved. Andrea Miles, Rio Rancho, New Mexico

I thought of you often these past couple of days and each time I'm reminded of 9/11. I lived next door to you on Ridgecrest. I'll never forget you driving down the street in your little pick up truck and your cute son Josh. You are missed. Mary Swayzee (Avila), Alamogordo, New Mexico

we miss uncle al and we love you aunt becky trisha and chris coble, la luz, New Mexico

Robert Fangman 9/11/11

I have the honor of paying tribute to Robert Fangman.  Robert was 33 years old on 9/11.  He was a member of the crew on United Airlines Flight 175.  His mother and sister Terri spoke of his love of wine, gourmet food, big cities and international travel. They said he brightened many family gatherings with tales of his European journeys or by bursting into song, a cappella. "He had a such a beautiful voice,'' said Terri, 43, who was in Texas last weekend with her brothers. Bobby's happiest days were the last eight months, as he hop-scotched around the country and the globe, often taking last-second assignments to Europe, they said. Mr. Fangman traveled extensively, walking on and off planes as if they were buses. One week it would be to Texas to visit his brother, another it would be to Delaware to visit his mother. He carried flashcards so he could study the information about the various planes. Mr. Fangman loved foreign cities, dancing and fine wine, Mrs. Fangman said. It bothered him that unfinished wine in first class had to be poured down the sink, so he would ask others attendants to do it for him. On Sept. 11, he was assigned to Flight 175. His ambition was to be assigned to international flights and he chose to be based out of Boston because he could move up more quickly there.
Robert was loved and is very missed.  From all the messages he has received it's clear what a great person he was.... here are some messages left to him from Legacy.com.  I'm sorry you lost him.
I loved always flying united airlines robert ya are a great man and i will never forget ya lord bless you and ya will have a special place in my hear always i salute you lieutent jensen usmc

john jensen, riverside, California

Your light perpetually burns in the hearts of all whom you touched. You are missed and honored in many ways.
Love you and will always wish you were still here!! Terri Frakes, Charlottesville, Virginia

Hey Uncle Bobby.. 9 years and it still hurts just as bad, especially watching all this stuff on tv the last few days doesnt make it better. Just thinking about you and missing your laugh! <3

I  worked with Robert a few months before this happened. We had such a fun day!!! He cracked me up!!! I had always hoped to work with him again. Lisa Bias, Seattle, Washington
Bob, Eight years have passed since that tragic day you were lost to us here on earth...but I feel your spirit and know you are always with us in our heart. So, in your honor, I choose to have what I call a "Bob" day in remembrance. Rich and I went to Smith Mountain Lake, had a great waterfront view from our balcony, good music, waterfront dining eating some mexican food(not as hot as you would like...your level of "hot" always amazed me...some adult beverages and a late night soak in the hot tub gazing at the stars, having a drink,listening to music. A perfect Bob day in my opinion.
Love ya, always will miss ya,always with me.Terri

Bobby, Bob, Rob, Robert,
I miss so many things about you. Like what color your hair would be when you would come home to visit. Watching our favorite TV show "Everybody Loves Raymond" and laughing like crazy (I still watch it). Hot tub conversations, you calling me on the 800 number to let me know what pool you were sitting at and what you were drinking. Playing pinball all nite long trying to beat Greg's high score(which I finally did a couple years ago at 3 am). Only took 7 years!! How your lips would get so red after drinking alot of red wine !! I miss everything about you. My life has not been the same since that day and it never will be. We're having the Martin Family Reunion in a couple of weeks and I am sure many glasses of wine will be consumed in your honor and memory and your spirit will definitely be there. I love you with all my heart! Debbie Fangman, Wilmington, Delaware

I went to school with Bob in Claymont, DE and we graduated from CHS in 1986. Bob was always the guy that made us laugh and laugh some more. Angie DeTulleo, Keller, Texas

I remember Rob from when we both worked at Verizon Wireless. He was great. On 9/11 all of the all-news stations were constantly updating the casualty lists. Standing at the Hoboken, NJ riverfront I watched the crash and the collapse of the towers. Listening to a radio, I truly lost it when I heard Rob's name. I always knew he had a ticket to heaven, I never thought it would be punched so soon.
God Bless Rob.--Bill Jones, Union City, New Jersey

 

Sandra Teague 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Sandra Teague. Sandra was 31 years old on 9/11. She was a passenger on American Airlines Flight 77. Sandra was on her way to Australia for a three week vacation, "She had been planning her trip literally all year," said an uncle, Charles Sherrill. "She was going to go rafting, trekking and rock-climbing. It was going to be her first trip abroad, her great adventure."

"She took joy in everything--whether she was good at it or not," said Meris Chang, director of physical medicine and rehabilitation at the hospital. Chang recalled softball games with work colleagues where Teague would be on the mound. "She wasn't the greatest pitcher, but she had such a good time out there she was a joy to watch," Chang said.
Teague's colleagues believed she was in the middle of one of the happiest years of her life. She was dating a man, was blossoming professionally and had formed solid friendships in a short period of time. Teague moved to the Washington area just last year. She had received her master's degree in physical therapy in 1988 from the University of Osteopathic Medicine and Health Sciences in Des Moines.
Clearly Sandra loved her life, her family and friends. Here are some messages and memories that have been left both to her and for her.... I'm sorry.
we miss you Aunt Sandy. Samantha Bruce, New Braunfels, Texas
Thinking of you tonight. The news today brings you to the forefront again. It brings all of the ones who died that day to our attention again. We miss you and think of you often. Rest in peace now, Sandy. Allison Moore, Winston Salem, North Carolina
Sandy, I enjoyed working with you at Hallmark before you were a PT. You were the one that first got me interested in the medical field. Thank you for that. I also finally sat down and watched one of your favorite movies that you suggested. The Shawshank Redemption. You were right! It was incredible! If I ever make it to Australia my husband and I plan to plant a flower or a tree or do something for you in honor of your memory. Keep watching over all of us, Sandy. We all miss you.
Allison Moore, Winston-Salem, North Carolina
Wow! It's been 8 yrs ago today. Every year on this day I think about you Sandra. I was so excited for you fulfilling your life long dream of going to Australia and getting ready for your life with Frank. I truly believe you had found your true happiness in life and love.
We worked for 2 years together at Iowa Lutheran and shared some fun times. You wouldn't believe how grown up Clare has become. She's no longer the little baby you helped care for when Sean moved ahead of us to Madison, WI.
You were disappointed that I beat you out of IA; however, you followed very quickly. I remember you asking me to be a reference for you during your job hunt. Georgetown could not have been more blessed to have you on staff. You were an amazing woman with such a zest for life. Your smile will live on in my heart. I pray that your family and loved ones are healing, but I know there will always be questions about Why?. I pray that each year gets easier; however, know that you will never be forgotten.
I may have beat you in the race to move out of Iowa; however, you beat us all in the race to heaven. I miss you! Nancy Davison, Carson City, Nevada
Aunt Sandy,It's almost time for that day again...I'm not ready. I miss you so much. I wonder what you would be like if you were still here with us...if Christmas would be like it use to be, what you would think of the things that have come to happen since you left us. I wish you could have met Matthew...I've told him all about you...although he's still too young to know everything or even understand it. I wish the pain would go away but it won't...it still hurts like it just happened. Watch over us...I love you very much and miss you! R.I.P. Samantha Teague, New Braunfels, Texas
Sandra,There is not a day that goes by that I don't remember you, and the to few mornings of working the Gym together at Georgetown. My prayers are always with your loved ones, that they may find some comfort to this horrible tragedy. YOU will never be forgotten. Kristin Torbett-Holt, Waldorf, Maryland

Diane Simmons 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Diane Simmons. Both she and her husband of 19 years George were killed on 9/11 on American Airlines Flight 77. Wow they had a lot of friends and were very loved by friends and family.
Here are some messages and memories that I found to them both on legacy.com.... so sad reading how much they are missed. Great, great people.
Diane miss you and George today and everyday. Think of you every single day thanks for being my big sister, love and miss you. Freddy Helm, Kew Gardens, New York
Diane and George had a unique ability to always make you feel at home, when you were with them. No matter where that was. They had initiated a yearly family gathering in 1992 at Rehoboth Beach at Easter time, that continues today. It is because of this gathering that Trish and I had decided to retire in that area. We try to emulate ourselves after them by continuing to share their legacy, by keeping the family traditions alive and well. Thanks to you and George for the love that you gave. We miss you both. Andy Ficarella, Lewes, Delaware
Thinking of you and George a lot these days. Sure do miss you guys. Andy & I had house built down in Lewes, Delaware the town next to Rehoboth. We'll be retiring there next year when Andy turns 55. If it wasn't for you and George we would not have known about this great Southern Delaware community. Wish you were here to enjoy this time with us. Love & miss you,
Tricia Ficarella, Massapequa Park, New York
Well Diane another birthday today for you and my 60th was two weeks ago I wish you and George were still here to celebrate with me I miss you guys today and think about you everyday. I had a hard time dealing with that awful day 9/11 but things have gotten better after talking about it in therapy, you know me never could handle loss. Thanks for being my big sister and never giving up on me, even when times were not going good for me and I was ready to give up on myself. They are building a national memorial at the WTC site with all the names of people lost on 9/11 you guys will be remembered always.LOVE FREDDY
Freddy Helm, Kew Gardens, New York
Ken and I were in Napa Valley CA on 9-11. We picked a restaurant we knew Diane and George would love and had a champagne toast to honor them. They were truly two of the finest people we have known. Marcie Reinertson, Johnson City, Tennessee
can't believe it has been 6 years....it all still seems so real. I was going thru old pictures for Dad to put in a collage frame and came across quite a few of you. Pictures with Mom at our house, her wedding shower just family get togethers. As always you were smiling....I don't ever remember you not having a smile on your face. It was hard moving away from family and losing touch as I did. Although I will always have fond memories of spending time with you I feel a great sense of loss! I think of you often and back to days of yesteryear and smile. As always you are loved...
Kathleen Lewis (aka McMahon), Eugene, Oregon
It's so hard to get through each and every day without you but even harder today on the 6th anniversary.We miss you and all you meant to our family. Life does go on but it's not the same without you to enjoy it with. Miss you so much. Tricia Ficarella, Massapequa Park
cannot believe it's been six years. I still think of you and George often and I still ask myself what you would do when faced with difficult decisions. I am expecting my first baby at the end of October. I hope I can instill the same values and powers of positive thinking that you have in me. I miss you both deeply. Melinda Schnur, Falls Church, Virginia

Ruben Ornedo 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Ruben Ornedo. Ruben was 39 years old on 9/11. He was a passenger on American Airlines Flight 77. He lived in Los Angeles with his wife of one year. She was pregnant on 9/11. Ruben worked for Boeing and was an Engineer. I found this essay written by Ruben's wife Sheila, is touching and heartbreaking. I'm so sorry you lost him.

Sheila Ornedo wrote this essay on Dec. 10, 2001. She planned to submit it to the Salt Lake Organizing Committee, seeking to carry the Olympic torch in memory of her husband, Ruben. Before she could submit the text, she was invited by the committee to participate in the relay as one of the 11,500-plus Torchbearers. Below is an excerpt of her words:
The tragic events of Sept. 11, 2001, drastically changed my life forever. I lost one of the most important people in my life. On that day, my husband Ruben Ornedo boarded the ill fated [American Airlines] Flight 77 that crashed into the Pentagon. Yes, my husband, along with many others, was a victim of terrorism. There is no doubt in my mind that my husband and the other victims are heroes. They all died for our freedom. The men who took their lives wanted to sabotage our freedom. They detested our freedom and peace and did not understand the meaning of the word "tolerance." ...
As the days move on, people come to tell me what a kind and loving person Ruben was. I knew how special he was. As his wife, I experienced firsthand his love and dedication to his family. When my health and the health of our yet-to-be-born baby were at risk, he stayed by my side night and day. He never complained about any inconveniences. His main concern was for me to get well and to save our baby. ...
Ruben was not just a loving and dedicated husband, he was a very caring and compassionate son. One touching story is that when his mother became terminally ill with cancer, Ruben took it upon himself to take care of her and try to ease her pain. He did not want to leave his mother's side [and stayed with her] as much as possible. He slept on the hard wood floor of his mom's bedroom just to be with her. Although he knew it was a losing battle, Ruben never complained. He just did the best he could. ...
As I ponder all these wonderful accounts and memories of Ruben, I become more resolved to tackle and fight back against the blows of this tragedy. My husband, who was a kind, wonderful and selfless human being, has given me the courage and strength to move on with my life and take care of our baby and the people he loved. Ruben was a very strong man—not just physically, but also in his convictions. He was a pacifist. His belief was to stand firmly for your rights, but persuade gently with words and not with violence.
Ruben is truly my inspiration. Even though he is no longer with me physically, I still feel the security and comfort he gave me. Again, the events of Sept. 11 have changed my life forever. But my husband Ruben has inspired me to continue his legacy of kindness and peace. We must believe in tolerance and compassion for one another. This was his belief. I hope someday that everyone, all nations, and all people will feel this way. I would like to tell my daughter someday that her father was truly a hero and an inspiration to all whose lives were touched by him.
—Sheila Marie G.

Here are some memories and messages left to Ruben and his family from strangers and friends...

A prayer to the Orneado family. Rubin lived the American dream in liberty and peace and his sacrifice is remembered on this day.
Steve Gasparotto, Hawthorne, California

Ruben and I played basketball together at the Westside YMCA in Los Angeles. He was a real competitor and a gentleman at all times. My thoughts to his family and love ones.
Jonnie Hargis, Pacific Palisades, California

I miss you. Robin is growing to up to be such a smart and beautiful girl. You should be proud. =)
Tiffany Ornedo, Carson, California

May God bless you and your family. Your seat at the Mariposa Ave. Starbucks is still reserved for you... Flash, Northern VA

Rest in Peace Ruben, Know you will never be forgotten.
Proud American

Karen Kincaid 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Karen Kincaid. Karen was 40 years old on 9/11. She was a passenger on American Airlines Flight 77. She was married to Peter Batacan and she was a Lawyer in Washington DC. From Karen's brother I found these words to describe her:

Hardworking. Industrious.
"This bashful, shy kind of girl really blossomed," Kincaid said, "really did well professionally."
Kincaid-Batacan, a graduate of Central College and Drake Law School worked as an intern for Sen. Charles Grassley and later as a clerk in the Iowa Supreme Court. In Washington, D.C., she served as an attorney for the Federal Communications Commission and later entered private practice in communications law for Wiley Rein and Fielding in Washington, D.C. She was a new adjunct professor at Catholic University's Columbus School of Law.

A quote that was said to be a favorite of Karen's was read at her memorial: “Life is short, and we do not have too much time to gladden the hearts of those who travel the way with us. So be swift to love, and make haste to be kind, and the peace of God will be always with you.”

Below are messages left both for and about Karen by friends and strangers on Legacy.com. She is loved and missed..... I'm sorry.

It has been another year....I will never forget...and as long as this is here...every year I will write to give remembrance. My heart to Karen's family..God Bless...
Robin Ketchum, Des Moines, Iowa

To Karen's family: I enjoyed meeting Karen at Wiley. She was a very kind person to the junior attorneys. I think of her every 9/11.
Former Wiley Associate, Washington, District of Columbia

To Karen's Family: We will never forget Karen. Her name and memory carry on each and every day at our firm as we all remember her and her shining smile.
Debbie Jones (Wiley Rein), Washington, District of Columbia

I went to high school at WSR in Waverly, Iowa and church with Karen. We had so much fun in both. I think about her often and miss her. She has been and is always in my prayers. I miss you Karen and god bless.Your long time school and church buddy.
Kim Eveland, Overland Park, Kansas

A day doesn't go by that I don't say a prayer for you, Karen. You touched my family's life in so many ways. The world has been a sadder place since you were taken from us. To Peter, I ask that God give you the strength to carry on without your wonderful Karen. All my love, Joe Cesaitis Columbia, Maryland

To my dear friend, Karen: I miss you in my life. You were not only my friend, you were part of my family. I live with a hole in my heart, but I am trying very hard to live the way you showed me, with love, compassion, and an infinite capacity to forgive. I'm coming up short, Karen, but I'm trying. Know that I love you, that I will forever keep you with me, and I pray for Peter and your brothers and sisters every day. Love always, Maureen Ellicott City, Maryland

I long to hear your voice, see your smile and hear your infectious laughter. I love you and miss you, my sister. Kay Damico, Cedar Rapids, Iowa

Karen was my sister. Such good childhood memories fill my heart - times of laughter and playing Matt Dillion and Miss Kitty, or swing on the porch swing at 404 2nd St., our childhood home. Karen was a shy child - but grew up into a powerful and most accomplished lawyer, though she would never say so. Her values never changed - for she carried them in her heart. Farewell, my dear sister, I say, but only for a little time. I will see you in the heavenly mansions, never to be separated again. You taught me much. I love you. Kris Kincaid, Dubuque, IA

On the morning of September 11th, I lost a better part of me. The hole in my heart is crippling. I love you and miss you Karen. Oh, to touch your hand or hear your voice. Karyl Kincaid-Noel,
Waverly, Iowa

Norma Khan 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Norma Khan. She was 45 years old on 9/11 and was a passenger on American Airlines Flight 77. Norma was a mother to a 13 year old boy on 9/11/01. She was the Manager of member services with Plumbing-Heating-Cooling Contractors-National Association. The messages left for Norma on Legacy.com are touching and I hope that her loved ones take some comfort in them. Here are some of the messages and memories that have been left for her....

Bringing roses to your Reston memorial today. You are always in our hearts & will never be forgotten. I hope to see your son someday & tell him our funny real estate stories. Miss you & still feel the joy of your laughter. Sherry

Sleep in peace Normie. He's gone forever. Love,Carol

April 26, 2011 Normie --- Thinking of you on your birthday. Still love you. Still miss you.Carol

Happy Birthday in Heaven~Beautiful Princess....Always in my heart and mind, You are never forgotten!!Loving you eternally,ek

Norma, you are always remembered, loved & missed very very much.Your laughter & ever cheerfulness & great example lives on in our hearts. Norma, You were the Best Mom, teacher & friend & I pray for Imran & you today & always. Sherry DeReuter
Love and miss you "Girlfriend". And will never forget ..........Carol

Norma, you brightened each of our days at Association Management Group with your smile and your laughter. I could use that on this appropriately rainy day in Washington.
Rob Chenault, McLean, Virginia

NONNIE.... MY BELOVED SPECIAL NIECE... AS YOUR THIRD BIRTHDAY, IN HEAVEN IS ABOUT TO COME. I WISH YOU ONE MORE TIME "HAPPY BIRTHDAY". I MISS YOU SO, SO VERY MUCH AND LOVE YOU SO DEARLY. YOU ARE IN MY HEART, MIND AND SOUL DAILY. THEY SAY TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS, I AM STILL WAITING... I KNOW YOU ARE AT PEACE, FOR THAT WAS YOUR NATURE ON EARTH SINCE A LITTLE GIRL. COUNTLESS.....ARE ALL THE BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES YOU HAVE LEFT BEHIND FOR ME AND ALL THE WONDERFUL WAYS YOU WERE AND STILL ARE!!! YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY LITTLE GIRL!!! I LOVE YOU ETERNALLY, TITI LIZZIE
LIZ KLEIN, HOUSTON, Texas

Norma,You and your family are always in our prayers. We will never forget your smile and most of all, your dedication to your Son ! You are truly an inspiration to all of us you left behind. We love you Girlfriend ! We know you are bringing smiles up there to all who are with you !Deb
Deb Zelensky, Reston, Virginia

Norma, you are sadly missed by so many people. Your smile, your generosity of thought and your unselfishness will always be remembered by so many people, who loved you.Thank you for all you did for so many people. Ellen Graves, Reston, Virginia

Bryan Jack 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Bryan Jack. Bryan was 48 years old on 9/11. He was passenger on American Airlines Flight 77. Jack was a brilliant mathematician and top budget analyst who translated policy decisions by the defense secretary into hard numbers. He had recently married his long time girlfriend of 15 years. I found so many messages left for Bryan, he is very missed and was so loved. I'm sorry that he was killed on that awful day. Here are some of the memories that have been left for him....

Bryan, my dear cousin: U.S. forces killed bin Laden today in Pakistan. He is gone, and I am glad. But you are still gone, too. And nothing will ease that pain. Please know we love you and miss you. Leanne McGinty Perry

Bryan: In the 90s when I was working for OSD Comptroller and you were with PA&E, you encouraged me to finish up my PhD at Virginia Tech. I finally did so in 2004 and dedicated my dissertation to you. You were one of the smartest guys I ever knew, and I want to thank you publicly for your support. I'm sure you're in God's hands now, teaching math to the angels.
John Bourbeau, Huntsville, Alabama

Bryan, Your memory is a blessing. Peace forevermore, Susan

This tragedy still remains as a fresh wound in our hearts. As it will for the rest of our lives. My prayers still are with you and yours. Lou Ann Carter, Lincoln, Nebraska

As a member of the greater Jack family, I am always saddened by the loss of one of us. Bryan's loss is tragic to be sure, but I am heartened by the love he received in life and by the continuing love and remembrance he will have hereinafter. His memory will be in my heart each time I think of Texas or Japan (where I spent many years), the DoD (where I worked for years), or when I eat a piece of pecan pie (my favorite!).My love to his family and friends.
Daniel Jack, Hesperia, California

Your sacrifice lives within us now, and will every day to come. God will bless and watch over those who stayed behind.
James, Kelly, Marissa, & Jessica Jack, Garland, Texas
Brian Jack was the portrait of a true gentleman. I wish there were more men like him. What a gentle soul he was. He will be greatly missed here at the Pentagon. May God bless his wife and family.Cindy Alexander Woodbridge, Virginia
Brian - Enjoyed talking to you on the subway a few weeks ago before you passed away. I always enjoyed your company as we worked together in OSD PA&E from 1981-1985 with John Morgan and Milt Margolis. Sorry I did not get a chance to meet your bride or take up your invitation to visit you in the Pentagon. May god rest your soul and my sincerest condolences to your family. Regards, Frank Hall Alexandria, Virginia

Barbara Edwards 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Barbara Edwards. She was 58 years old on 9/11/01 and was a passenger on American Airlines Flight 77. Barbara was a teacher at Palo Verde High School in Las Vegas and taught French and German. She was a native of Germany, she came to the US with her family when she was little. From the messages left for her on various sites she was much loved and is very missed. She left such a positive mark on students and friends. I'm so sorry she was killed on that awful day. Here are some of the messages that have been left for Barbara from Legacy.com and 911Heros.us. Some are recent, others are years old but the hurt is still the same, message after message from students. They are tough to read.

Madame Edwards, You were one of my favorite teachers and I still shed a tear every year for you. You had one of the best smiles and personalities I was blessed to encounter. I know you are soaring with the eagles and chatting it up with God. You showed love and kindness and I wish that love and kindness was still here to cover the pain that this country is still feeling. love always, Lisa

Dear Mrs. Edwards, I am the Sailor who unveiled your bench yesterday at the the Pentagon Memorial. Your name stuck with me, so I decided to find out who you where. Upon finding you and reading the the things others have written, I am very honored to have unveiled your memorial bench. I would just like to send my heart out to your family, friends, and students. Even though I did not know you personally, I do know you had a major impact on many lives. We will always remember you and all the others who were lost that day.
AN Charlie Caldwell, U.S. Navy

I remember the news coming the next day. After such a horrible day the news just kept getting worse. I was very shocked; I had seen you just a few weeks before that: During the summer you had a broken arm, and you were telling me how much you looked forward to having me in your class again. It was very hard to swallow and didn't hit me fully for hours. Still today, over six years later, it still hurts to remember it. You were such a sweet and caring person and a great teacher. Without you I likely wouldn't have made it through high school; you inspired me. I will NEVER forget that. James Stephens

On this eve of 9/11 as it does every year my heart and thoughts are with Barbara and her family. Barbara your laughter lives on in my heart. You will forever be missed. Carmen Andrews, Henderson, Nevada

R.I.P. Ms. Edwards. You were my favorite teacher in high school, I looked forward to your german class every day. You are truly missed by me and many others.
Jennifer Jones, Las Vegas, Nevada

As we always think about Barbara, today I decided to google her, and came across this guest book, which makes me very glad that she lived such a fulfilled life. Barbara was my mom's best friend and also like a second mom to me. So many years later, I still remember her laugh and her sweet voice. She was funny, honest, and you always knew she was on your side. Barbara obviously made a great impact on her students, friends, and above all her family. I know she is watching over us all with all the other angels...because she definitely takes care of me each day. She was a great person, who loved Germany and teaching German more than anyone I know....no one can replace her...and still no one has. Stacie Daigle, Las Vegas, NV

I was a senior at Palo Verde the year we lost Ms. Edwards. She was my french teacher during my junior year. She had the biggest heart and cared deeply for all who entered her class room. She touched my life personally by caring about me during a hard time. She was a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen. Every class she would make sure I was doing ok. Losing her was very hard, not just for me, but for the entire student body and faculty at PV. I will never forget the day we all found out. I was one of the students who set up the memorial in the cafeteria for her. It was a very hard thing to do. Many tears were shed for her loss. It was a loss that has impacted my life. 9/11/01 has personal meaning to me and my family. My brother is a sophomore at Palo Verde, and he is taking french. It saddens my heart that she is not the one teaching him and that he will never get to know what a wonderful person she was. JaNae Bohac, Las Vegas, Nevada

Honestly, it is only at this point in time that I am able to begin to talk about 9/11 and the incredible loss of Barbara Edwards. Barbara helped train me as a foreign language teacher. She was incredibly patient and kind and she knew that teaching took a ton of daily work and preparation.I clearly remember her giving me some candy when I first observed her teaching. In between classes I saw her make the mental change from teaching German to teaching French. She was such a great example for me because I eventually became licensed in French and Spanish and had to switch languages just like her. It was incredibly difficult for me to change languages, but I knew it could be done because she was so successful at it.Barbara, I think of you very often, especially when I am teaching. Thank you for always exemplifying the quality of perseverance. Hilary Greene, Las Vegas, Nevada

was a student of Mrs. Edwards my sophmore year of high school which was the 98-99 school year. I had a lot of family and personal troubles that year and rarely made it to school, but when I could go I did a lot of times just because I loved her french class so much. She was a wonderful teacher, and I'm sure a wonderful person. Mrs. Edwards was the only person I knew that was taken in the attacks, but I just want you to know that I now serve in the United States Army as of March 2001 and if I am ever given the chance to bring any of the terrorists to justice, I will do whatever I can to make the loss of this great woman and all the others not be in vain.PFC Joanne Willey, US Army
Mike, Doug, Scott -When you were all growing up in Basking Ridge, I saw your Mother frequently, and she was always smiling, always had a nice word to say. She enjoyed life, and I know you boys have many wonderful memories of her. While she left you too soon, remember the good times, the laughter, and know that she is watching you. Susan Shale, Branchburg, NJ
God Bless this wonderful person. She gave knowledge to so many, and now so many must hurt. To all of her students, I give you my deepest sympathy, to her family, I wish I could take away the grief and the pain, but since I can't, I will see to it that she is never forgotten. May god bless those whom this beautiful soul has touched. Stephanie Scovell, Henderson, Nevada

William Caswell 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to William Caswell. He was 54 years old on 9/11/01. He was a passenger on American Airlines Flight 77. From what I have read of him, he was a really smart guy. Crazy smart. He was a physicist that graduated from the University of Maryland at College Park and received his doctorate in elementary particle theory from Princeton University. He did postdoctoral research at Stanford and Brown universities and taught physics at the University of Maryland before beginning work for the Navy almost 20 years ago. He was said to have been very competitive, kind was loved, "He loved everything about life. He played pool and bridge and racquetball, and tennis with his daughter Jennifer. He liked folk dancing, too. That's how we met," his wife Jean Caswell.

Here are some of the messages from Legacy.com that friends and loved ones have left for Bill. He was loved and is missed...

It was my privilege to work with Bill for a number of years. Thoughtful, smart, and gentle are words that come to mind as I think of him.Today our guys got UBL for Bill and the others. God Bless you. Bill Caswell, and may God Bless your family. Mike

The Caswells have always been a patriotic and intelligent group, my condolences, Dana J. Caswell Albany NY

Gingi, it's so hard to believe five years have passed. I wanted to pay my respects to your brother today. My thoughts are with you and your family. Rise Shifra Shamansky, Kew Gardens, New York

Jennifer, you don't know me, but I am also a senior at your school in Silver Spring.Let me just say that I offer my deepest and sincerest condolences. I can only imagine what you and your entire family have been going through, but I do feel hurt and pain over this senseless attack and loss of innocent lives. Know that you, your father, and your family have been in my prayers. And also know that if you ever need someone for whatever, please let me know what I can do to help.Much love.God bless. Omar Guerrero, Silver Spring, Maryland

Renee May 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Renee May. Renee was 39 years old on 9/11/01, she was a Flight Attendant for American Airlines on Flight 77. She loved art and worked as a docent at the Walters Art Museum and was engaged to be married. She made blankets for her friends and liked to travel the US.

Here are some of the memories that I found on Legacy.com - both to Renee and telling stories about her and how much she will be missed.

The 7th Anniversary has come and gone. We had a dedication for the 9/11 Memorial in Grapvine on 7-4-2008. I thought of you on my Maui trip last week, Renee. I flew with Shirley Hall and told her about you and why I had not visited any of the sights around the country. I was impressed with the speech she wrote and the results of the sculpture. I wish I could have been there to represent you but I had a trip. You would be proud of the volunteers who have worked so hard to make the monument come to fruition. I made a contribution and it is in your memory. I am ready to visit the sights, I will go to Ground Zero, the Pentagon and to Grapvine. Shirley has helped me make the first move, I think seeing the pictures and reading her speech did it for me. I know it will be tough but nothing compared to the bravery you exemplified 9-11-2001. As we leave the month of September for 2008, I will not forget you, ever. I think of you each time I take off on a trip and ask God to have the angels go with me. You are one of those I know is with me.Blessings to your family, I sure hope they get to read these entries and know how much you meant to all of us. You are my SHERO!Dawn Michelle Berry AA Classmate 87-27 (Goldi) Dawn Michelle Berry,
Frisco, Texas

Renee was my mother's best friend. My mom is Thais Schurder! Some one mentioned them always being together and loving Rod Stewart and it made me smile. She was the most warm hearted, sweet person. I would always get so excited when she would come visit! She is forever in our hearts. My mom tells me fun storys about her all the time. I look up to her, and wish that I can some day turn out to be half as good of a person as she was. I didnt get to know you for too long, but the time you spent in my life I will never forget. Please put my mother in your prayers. Emma Schurder, Barrington, Illinois

Dear Renee,Another September 11 has come and gone. I find myself trying not to think about it, but thoughts of you keep running thru my mind. Your AA family will always miss you!
Joni Williams, Baltimore, Maryland

My dear Renee.It the 2nd anniversary of that horrible day.I miss you so much but you live in my heart and memories and are in my eternal prayers.I wear your bracelet always and you are my angel when I fly at work. I know you have given me signs you are watching over me. I have felt your presence so deeply at times. You are now in a better world than which we live. One day we all will walk hand in hand in God's garden together again. I miss you so much. May God watch over your family and help them heal. your dear friend, Tina Newport Middletown, Delaware

Today is the 6 month anniversary. I am sitting at my computer in my office, the same place I did on that day. So today I am doing something different. I looked up someone who is the same age as me, exactly. And then I read everything on line about her. Wow, she was really well loved. I am sorry for your loss, we still feel it, here in Canada too, your war is our war, your loss is our loss, we are strong because you are, and believe in peace and brotherhood, the same as you do. Your neighbor to the north, sheds two tears for every one of yours.
Sherry Ballman, Winnipeg, Manitoba

It's been 5 month...I still hear Renee's voice each and everyday. I can see her in my mind's eye. I know we all have a crew of angels flying with us each and every day we put on the blue polyester...I miss you Renee. Thanks for the friendship and the memories
Betty Marzoa, Chester, Maryland

Renee May was my god mother. She was also fun to be around. I will never forget the sound of her voice and the great memories we had together. Brandon Worden, Escondido, California

Jennifer and Kenneth Lewis 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Jennifer and Kenneth Lewis. They were both flight attendants on American Airlines Flight 77 on that horrible day. They had been married since 1993.

Jennifer was 38 years old and had loved horses. She is said to have been a practical joker.

Kenneth was 49 years old and loved golf, and traveling and watching his wife at horse shows. They were a close and loving couple. I'm sorry that you lost them.

Here are some of the messages that loved ones and strangers have left for each of them, from Legacy.com..... the messages can tell stories of all these people much better than I can.

I think about you often, Ken. And, I hope you know how much you are loved and missed. You and Jennifer are together forever in a much better place....watching over those have grieved. On this day, I pray that God has given you your much deserved wings...wings of an angel. ~ Mary Ellen Jesse, Cleveland, Ohio

Today is the 7th anniversary. It is hard to believe. You and Jennifer will always be in my heart. I miss you both so much. Patti Mayberry, Colorado Springs, Colorado

Kenny was the most wonderful man who so deserved a most wonderful life. To this day, March 6, 2006, I still love him so deeply. I am so grateful that he found such a wonderful, loving, fabulous woman to be his wife. I am so sad she had to die, I know how much she loved him, I am so happy she made his life here wonderful, therefore, although I never met or knew her, I love her too for the love she gave him. I'll never stop loving Kenney. I'll write more when I'm able-it's taken this long for me to be able to write this. His death has been extremely difficult to accept. His parents are beautiful people and anyone who knows them should be helpful to them because loss of their loving son is more than anyone can fathom-he called them every day-no son I know or have known does that-just Kenny!!! liz draper, orchid island, Florida

Ken, As your big 50th nears on February 28th, I feel your loss even more. You know I would have been there to help you celebrate! You were a special guy and one heck of a husband to my sister Jennifer. As time moves on, it only seems to get harder. I will forever miss our golf days, our ski and hike trips to Colorado and of course the Jimmy Buffett concerts and boating on Lake Anna. Riley and Chayley will miss so much in their lives by not having you and Jennifer around to watch them grow. I miss you and I send my birthday toast to you! People say you two are in a better place, hard for me to accept that but I sure hope " KENNIFER " are safe and happy!
Barry Gore, Dexter, Michigan

I found out today how Jen was no longer with us and I wanted to share some stories of her, I knew she had passed, but did not know the circumstances until today. I remember Jen when we were in jr high and high school together. She was one of my good friends at the time. We would sit in home room in 7th and 8th grade and laugh and giggle, plus we were in several classes together--Oh God, get us two together, who both loved to laugh uutt-ooo! I think that's what drew me to her, just wanting to laugh and have fun. Back then there was a "Dorothy Hamil" hair style which I "tried" to pull off. She called me "mushroom" or "smushmush" or "mushy" whatever hit her at the time. And the nickname stuck, no matter what hair style I got after that! It's funny how you can forget these things until something jars your memory. Jen's family moved away when she was in 9th or 10th grade, but she was only gone several months and when she came back for a visit she had the southern twang and it sounded awesome coming from her. I just said, "Jen you've only been gone 4 or 5 months and you've picked up the southern accent that quickly?!!!" I just laughed, as did she, hearing the difference in her accent. I think that was the last time I saw Jen, but I remember her smile and the sound of her laugh and her braces! She always seemed to want to joke around. And I remember this one distinct outfit she used to wear, which must have been her fave, a green and white checked shirt and green corduroys, whenever I think of her that's what I remember and her beautiful blonde hair, which I envied. I was honored to know Jen. My heart is heavy today, but she and others are truly American Heroes, she has my respect for what she and Ken and all the others who passed on that day went through and I will continue to keep her in my thoughts forever. Thank you for letting me share tidbits of my friendship with her. I hope this can give you some comfort, as you look back and can read about parts of her life with friends. I missed her then and I miss her now. RIP smiling angel, I hope to visit your memorial at the Pentagon some day :) Lorri Gauthier-Wood, Bennington, Vermont
hello, If you dont remember me, I am Chloe, Heidi Prayon, one of you old roommates and best friends, daughter. I used to ride Poet quite often. I am almost 13 now and I still remember the day that will be in our hearts forever. I still have the Poet horse stuffed animal that you gave me when I was a baby and whenever I see it it reminds me of you. Miss you lots. So does my mom.
Chloe Prayon, Chantilly, Virginia

I knew Jennifer through our mutual love of horses. I'll always remember her radiant smile, the way she could whistle SO loud, and the joy she had for life. I'll always miss seeing her and Poet in the ring. ~ Diane Cicak, Harrisburg, Pennsylvania

Michelle Heidenberger 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Michelle Heidenberger. Michelle was the Senior Flight Attendant on American Airlines 77 on 9/11/01. She was 52 years old. From what I have read of her Michelle was a loving, caring person and was a consummate professional that did her job very well.

Here is a video from the Washington Post that has very touching and heartbreaking words from Michelle's husband along with some wonderful family pictures:
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/photo/gallery/070911/GAL-07Sep11-87357/index.html

Neighbors and relatives in metropolitan Washington, D.C., remembered Heidenberger for many reasons: as a good friend, a gardener, owner of a new golden retriever puppy, and as someone who delivered groceries to older people.
"She took care of everyone else besides herself," Johnson said. "She did lots of volunteer work."
"For every one of us, at some point of our lives when we needed help, she was always the one there for us," her sister-in-law, Betsy Heidenberger, told The Washington Times.
"She was a lovely lady," neighbor Peter Dove told the Post when he answered the telephone Tuesday at the Heidenbergers' house. "We were such over-the-fence neighbors that we cut a gate in the fence."
Here are some quotes that have been left for Michelle on Legacy.com. I'm sorry you lost her.
They got him ~ A fellow f/a, Dca
Tom, Allison and Thomas,
Each and every year I think of the courage and sacrifice Michele made for all of us on September 11th. I feel blessed to have known her. Eight years does not take away the pain of her loss; but I pray that all of you have found a way to live your lives in honor of her. We must never forget! Marie Bradford, Salisbury, Maryland
Goodbye see on the next one ~ Edward, marysville, California
My name is PFC Kenneth Fritch, and I'm stationed at Ft. Myer, VA with the Old Guard. It was an honor to be the soldier to Unvail Michele's bench at the Pentagon. God bless her, and may she rest in everlasting peace. ~ Kenneth Fritch, Ft. Myer Virginia
MEMORIES....I was in Naples, Italy in the Spring, a woman passed by me & she looked so like Michele that I called out to her "Michele"! But a-last she was not you, but oddly enough her name was Michele! They say we all have a double; I may have met yours. She was British - hair a bit lighter; I told her our story (meeting when our daughters began kindergarten, of our life long friendship & of 9/11). I stopped at the Sansevero Chapel & said a prayer in memory of you ...You are still in my thoughts ~ VERONICA CRAWFORD-ROBINSON, CHEVY CHASE, Maryland
Michele, I don't know what to say except to thank you for being you. The good times playing tennis, swim meets, gatherings at your home, craft shows,making angels in your basement. Now you are the angel looking down on us. Love Lisa Garvey
Mrs. Heidenberger was an amazing lady. Although I only met her a few times, I feel that I have known her for years from the stories told by Allison. You are greatly missed by everyone, especially your family, who would make you so proud in the courage and strength that they have shown these past four months. God Bless!!
mike coffey, manhasset, New York
Shelly,
An angel has been sent to heaven.
I will never forget you, you were
my best friend. I will think of you everyday of my life.
With love, your sister,Suzie

David Charlebois 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to David Charlebois. David was 39 years old on 9/11/01, he was the First Officer on American Airlines Flight 77. He was serving as copilot on that flight. He was survived by his partner of 14 years, Tom Hay, and his parents who live in Front Royal, Virginia. He attended Catholic services with his parents until his death. David helped carry the banner for the National Gay Pilots Association in the Millenium March on Washington in 2000 marching in uniform. He also helped raise money for the Sexual Minority Youth Assistance League. He will be remembered fondly by many friends for his kindness, loyalty and positive attitude. Here are some of the messages I found for David. I'm so sorry to his loved ones and friends, he sounded like an amazing person to know and love....

"He was handsome and happy and very centered," Travis White, a neighbor in Charlebois' Washington, D.C. neighborhood, told the Washington Post. "His life was the kind of life I wanted to have someday."

They got him David.... Rest my friend.
Dca crew member

David,I can still remember running into you at the gym on Monday 9/10/01 and as you always did, you had a big smile on your face and it was always very nice talking to you and getting to know you over those short two years. You had such a good heart and you are still very much missed. I still remember the last words you said to me. " I am leaving tomorrow for LA, I will see you when I get back". Stephen, Washington DC

Thank you for taking me around on career day to the airport when I was young. I'll never forget you. Elizabeth Kelley

I still miss you every day. I am so happy to have had you as my best friend. Love you always - Dianne Ihling, Reading, Kansas

I miss you very much my sweet friend!

Dave, I remember our pool side chats at River Run Apartments while we were attending Embry-Riddle. Thanks so much again for letting me borrow your vacuum cleaner all those many times. Remember my sister Val? She joined you in Heaven two years ago...bless you for all the great memories and your selfless actions
Ron LeBlanc, Bridgton, Maine

Uncle David was the shining star in our family. Whenever he walked into a room, it always brightened up. He always carried his head high with a smile on his face that would make anyone smile. We have so many fond memories with him growing up, and I can't believe that there will be no more memories to make....no more teaching me how to steal cookies out of the cookie jar and arrange them so Grandma wouldn't notice... I am thankful that we have Tom here to share and make memories with because he reminds me so much of my uncle. They are alike in so many ways. I will continue to love and miss you Uncle David...please continue watching over us.
Danielle Lamb, Stephens City

You are a loving Uncle. I love you very much and you are missed very much by all of us.
Angela Bryner, Winchester, Virginia

Your airline pilot brothers and sisters will not forget you David!
Captain Andrew McKinley, Whitefish Bay, Wisconsin
I flew with David only a couple of times and on the eve of this 5th Anniversary I do not, nor will I ever forget, the sacrifice he has made. It will not be in vain.On each and every flight I now make, I draw on his inner strength to prevent this from ever happening again.Rest well and peacefully my friend. Capt. Jay Monesterio, Florida

I very much miss Uncle David. I love him. Every memory that I have of him is treasured.
jessie charlebois, richmond, Virginia

Douglas Stone 9/11/01

I have the honor of paying tribute to Douglas Stone, he was 54 years old on 9/11/01 and was a passenger on American Airlines Flight 11. He lived in Dover and was the co-owner of Odyssey Press. To know Douglas Stone was to know his distinctive brand of humor. "Cynical and dry" his son Zachary called it. "When he got going, everyone would be in tears." His business partner, Tad Parker, recalled the day that Mr. Stone, after dealing with some prickly personnel issue, sat down, looked up at the ceiling and stretched his arms out. "Can you feel the love?" he said, adding: "Human resources isn't my forte. Let's go have a toddy." From his son, their relationship "was better than a lot of father-son relationships; he was one of my best friends," said Zachary, who flew East every summer. "I worked in his printshop from the time I was tall enough to stand on a skid."Mr. Stone flew to California often, and was on hand to watch his son break two minutes in the 800-meter run — "one of the best things I got to share with him," Zachary said.

Doug sounds like he was a great guy and I know he is greatly missed. I'm sorry. Here are a few messages that have been left for him on Legacy.com... as I have said many times before, it always touches me that most of the messages left are for the person, miss you, happy birthday.... so sad.

Doug was a good man, and father, and employer. He is mourned by many, and we think of him often. We wish peace and healing to his son, family, and employees.
Kathy and Dan Fishback & friends

We Love and Miss you Doug! We will Never Forget!!!!!!!!!!
Cherye Dickson, Villa Park, California

Zach, we here at Odyssey will never forget, and think of you often. We always will love you, as he did. Claire Odyssey Press

DOUG WE WILL NEVER FORGET!!WE LOVE AND MISS YOU.YOU WOULD BE SO VERY PROUD OF YOUR SON. OUR LOVE ALWAYS,THE DICKSON FAMILY
VAUGHN DICKSON, VILLA PARK, California

Dear Doug,To quote Rumi,"Anything you love comes around in another form."You are missed.With Loving Memories, Ginny
Virginia Sasaki, Los Alamitos, California

The recent news has overwhelmed us. I hope our son, Zach, can find closure. Doug, he misses you so much. We all do.
Beth Stone, Fountain Valley, California

Doug, Zach and I attended the third Doug Stone Classic Golf Tournament in Maine on 9/11 together this year. It was such a joy to see the family again and a bittersweet day celebrating your memory. We miss you every day. Love, Beth
Beth Stone, Fountain Valley, California
February 26, 2004
Doug, It's your birthdate - I miss you I miss talking to you. You were so good to everyone and asked so little in return. Love, Sister Jane
Jane Puhn, Pittsfield, Massachusetts

recall Saturday morning, September 15th, 2001 - on that day I was at Woodbridge High in Irvine to watch my son and Edison run in the Woodbridge Invitational, one of the first XC meets of the year. I don't recall all the details of what I saw there; the school and surrounding area is a madhouse as it is every year. There are literally thousands of kids and probably a hundred or so teams present. I think a lot of parents and fans wore red, white and blue clothing; a lot of people wore remembrance-type ribbons, but for the most part, most teams wore their regular uniforms and sweats. The best place to watch the finish is the last straightaway leading to the finish chute. It is about 30 yards wide and there you can watch parents scream at the top of their lungs at the kids as they finish... At one point between races, I remember looking across that straightaway and seeing the Fountain Valley canopy and their assembled team. I do recall they were a bit more "decked out" than the other teams; many (all?) of them had on black armbands, many carried small American flags, and some of the girls had spray-painted their hair red, white and blue. Zach wasn't there - at least I don't think he was - as he'd graduated a few months earlier. The image that I remember best from that day was the end of a Boy's D1 race - I believe it was Varsity, but am not sure: Parents and bystanders were lined up probably 5-7 deep on both sides of that last straightaway, and at one point, Josh Selley from Fountain Valley came barreling around that last corner before the chute at top speed, armband on, with both arms high overhead, holding two small American flags as he finished strong into the chute. It's normal to cheer for your own child/school at the end of the race, but EVERYONE cheered loudly for Josh as he finished that race. I was touched by what I saw, but then I was really sad. I looked around at all the parents and athletes and realized that they had no way of knowing that Fountain Valley had lost a "Baron Dad" earlier that week. I hope you family is doing well and that the time has moved on quickly for them. Go Barons. Rest in Peace.
James Lynn, Huntington Beach, California